and here we go..

trust me, i’ve been busy with alot of stuff  since months ago(mentally and physically)

just look at my RD diary(thin and small and convenient to use and carry around,so gonna get it in december!)

realised im a straightforward tasks killer when i look at my diary =_=

(wait, what am i talking writing typing now?)

well it’s a rare case that i sit here and blog about something so emotional (since long time ago?) but that’s the thing spinning in my head now..

 

saw the cases recently and they made me think.. and i just wanna tell my sisters,

1. if your guy （guy,not boy) gives you trouble/heartache almost monthly,like PMS, please, ditch him. you’ve had enough with the real PMS.

倘若你的男人（要确定是男人，不是男孩）差不多每个月给你烦恼或心痛，像月经一样，那把它扔掉吧。真正的那个已经有够烦的了。

 

2. in a relationship , it’s give and take. one gives, and another appreciates as one takes, and it should go on like a cycle. if there’s no appreciation, or one dominates another, it’s total failure.

感情里面就是相互迁就，付出，接受，真心珍惜，就这样循环着。若哪一方驾驭另一方，那完全就是失败的。

 

3. be rational and logical. you can get a lil emo and touchy feely in a relationship but if you’re totally out of this reality, it dies faster.

理性一点，逻辑一点。虽然谈情说爱始终就是会有点感性的，但假如已经完全超出现实，那感情只会更快枯萎。

 

4. understanding and immediate actions should be given at one call/text. if he doesnt, ditch. end of story.

一个电话或短信，就应该给与立即的行动与谅解。要不然，扔了吧。不用再说了。

 

5. if both parties cant talk / communicate their thoughts or doesnt trust each other anymore, you know it’s the end. nothing beats that.

 

假如双方都已经不能真心聊天或谈心，真正沟通，甚至很难信任或相信对方了，你应该知道，已经完了。没有比这个更要命的了。

 

ah alright, good luck to you babes..bed is calling..

 

xoxo,

V. <3