such a...
there're videos of presentations in grammar and structure class but i just dont feel like posting it..
instead,i want to talk about an incident which happened recently(yesterday).
PEEPING IN VARSITY
Girls Traumatised
KUALA LUMPUR: A guy was found peeping into the girls toilet in a university here, while the girls who were in toilet during that time screamed and felt traumatised of the incident happened.
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i was so sad and angry,not only because of the incident,but also because my friend was one of the related, indirect victims.
i dont want to disclose too much , though.
Just pray and make for a better world.
i just really cannot understand, there's law,there's moral classes, there's ethical code, what do we lack of? practicality? applications?
i may be too naive but i still feel all these are so unreasonable.
why do they have to peep? i know there may be another psychological explaination but i think they need some kind of satisfaction? men are 'visual based', but why do they need to do these? i don't know...there are tonnes of porn web out there, or if you want healthier- scientific,sexual health web and all other 'sources'.(hey,don't tell me you never even heard of it?)
do people nowadays have a healthier mind since they have all received a basic,necessary education from the goverment by law?
by healthier i meant rational,open,critical mind.
i thought that people who didn't received enough or necessary education(be it formal or informal) will behave as this, and can be forgiven at times. you know,maybe they don't know that peeping is wrong,there's sexual respect,or there's self-respect,and behave as 'conservatively' that men in control of women...etc.
what i find is they don't pay attention in class, very probabily.and they don't read too. they don't see that there's already alot of social issues to be dealt with now.
back to the 'visual-based' satisfaction. they don't approach to their problem and fulfill their desire with a heathier way but go peeping? do they masturebate at that time?
forgive me,but nowadays, newspapers and magazines has revolved, and included sections on topics of sexual health. do you tell me to close my eyes because im still 'young'? hello, we are all mature people, aren't we? those were there to teach us lessons on appropriate behaviour and scientific facts. do you want to go like- oh my! i kissed with my boyfriend!im going to be pregnant!
eww.
and do you don't want to know how to protect yourself ? some of my friend's roomates bought condoms to protect them from AIDS if so unfortunately they have no escape in the incident of met a rapist.
come on...!!
i know some conservative elders thought that teaching too much is revealing too much of those inappropriate and unnecessary information,leading to curiousity.
oh well,look at the sex education plan the ministry was to do. why?and see the other schools in US or other countries.
they even distribute condoms to prevent 'unexpected and unwelcomed' happenings. and the rate?...
just, let's approach it in a healthy and scientific way-- no porns either, if ok.(that's too demeaning!!)
but i think the first step is to have self-respect?(hey,here comes the Oral communication and Interpersonal Skills class...)
that guy,imagine YOU were being peeped. or are you happy being peeped?
just recently there's a case of landlord installed spy cam in bathroom rented out to female students...my...i was scared too...(still,i haven't go and check MY bathroom yet.)
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