blurrish...
i was talking to a junior last night...which was so lucky of me,able to try and help another one(bleh xp) it's about changing courses and choices and prospect again..but most important was the problem of communication and adaptation to the university's life.
i do feel weird why do some of them have problem adapting. but clearly she was in a state of denial that she don't try to make things here work for her.
just like what they presented in the briefing(which was why coming to orientation is so important),you may encountering
1.more different people with different mind-set,attitude,life style,
2.not to forget the difference in food style or taste,
3.the fact of living with someone you're not familiar enough with,
4.taking new schedule of living and studying,5.even transport style may be different(e.g. you have to adapt to the university bus or city bus schedule)
6.the different style of teachings and doing assignments(just like in working field,rushing project and so on)
7. last but not least,organising your life.('coz your mom is not ever going to do your laundry and dishes)
although,it has not been a problem for me. because
1. i'm an independent person in overall from small(maybe i was brought up as that,or maybe is my characteristics)
2.i'm adventurous.i developed the bravery to explore.i try everything and make myself enjoy exploring it.
3.develope the love in learning(especially in my course-literature)
4.i like my life in my control,i do it as the way i want it.(e.g. not eating is no harm to me since my parents' not here nagging..shhh...!!!)
so,i pity her as she's so depressed and not comfortable ..i tried everything i can to talk and make her understand and also understand her..but in the end(acccording to psychology...=.=") i left her with her time to do the decision.i cannot tell her what to do.
sometimes life is just full of problem that are so complicated,frustrating, hard to deal with...
and then ,i went to buy my medicine today. i took the bus to section 14 as that's where all the major and more sophisticated shops located other than ss2. i bought some yogurt drink and noodles-try and see how's my digestive system is,if it is still like that..oh my,i would have to take melilea on monday,or tomorrow,maybe..
what i saw when i was going out was there was this huge (not THAT huge la...) bazzar or ware house sales actually,selling alot of things ranging from edible to inedible xp
i am not sure what company is that,maybe packaging's one,they were all branded ones,like ferrrero roche selling at rm20 per box (np rm35) because the expiry date is december 2007. scholls,barbie dolls set,incomix,cal-c tablets,clinelle(oh i liked this but i don't need it,so i didn't buy,the price was not that low afterall),kelloggs...and many more!! it's only for this two days.
i didn't buy any as i don't need any. in fact,some of the prices was really low but others are not so low afterall.
anyone wants to kill me for not informing them of this? ergh...
now i feel like dizzy after the medicine...gotta work soon,if not,i'm going to die on monday...
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